a hedgehog riding a motorbike? would i ever not accept a challenge?

Could Do Better

Jayne came running down to the school gate, pig tails flying left and right, one sock up, one down. That familiar brown envelope in her hand: the school report.

Jayne was the youngest of three, a decent 8 year age gap between her and her older brothers. All were outgoing but Jayne was the bubbliest and, having brothers, a tomboy, much to her mother’s frustration! Although Sindy and Barbie were everywhere, it was as fashion models for the clothes she designed and made rather than ‘make believe.’ She was much happier out on the allotment with Dad or helping him clean windows or fix the car [the wheel nut going plop was a story on its own.]

She handed the envelope to her mother and they turned to walk home, Jayne telling Mom what she had done that day and that she had been asked again to do a painting for another competition so had spent most of the day on her own in the corridor with paints and paper. Although happy to be doing this, she felt ostracised from her class mates who were doing normal school things.

The report went ‘on the side’ unopened until Dad came home and it never bothered Jayne that much what was on that single piece of see through paper as she was ahead in reading and writing and of course art. The only thing that annoyed her was the teachers calling her a liar when she said she had read all the blue book, red book and green book series and was currently reading Guns of Navarone at 9 years old.

Onto girls grammar school along with most of her peers. All a bright bunch, the brightest going to King Eds the rest, to one of two good grammar schools or the one decent comprehensive. A uniform. Yuck. But hey, they all looked the same.. apart from the young lady who was 11 going on 21 who rolled the skirt up shorter, wore heels an inch higher, plucked her eyebrows [???] and had a mole on her face that made her look like a movie star. Here there were streams; A, B, C, the unmentionables. Never one for the A stream Jayne settled into B then dropped to C. Although bright, her grasp of new facts and figures was slow to embed in her brain and languages were her nemesis. But dropping to C stream meant CSE not GCSE. At senior school, remembering things was important but if Jayne couldn’t picture it, she struggled to remember it. So senior school was hard work but she tried.

College was art based and then off into the big wide world of self employment, a big move at such a young age.

 Then marriage and a mortgage. Robbing Peter to pay Paul, wrapped up in duvets in the winter because they couldn’t afford a bag of coal. Net curtains stuck to the glass in the frost; no double glazing or central heating. Leaving the washing soaking in the bath to come home and find ice had formed on top of it.

But Jayne coped. She always tried her best just as she had at school.

Jayne is now single and appears to be having a great life to those on the outside with everything in place for a happy life.

On the inside the mask drops and life changing issues that come at 50 and with singledom occur and have to be dealt with.  Jayne is dissatisfied with her life. Feels lost that she hasn’t achieve anything and wonders why she exists if she feels so dissatisfied. She can’t understand why she feels she has never pleased everyone in her life, why she has always felt she could have done more or should have done better. Was she a complete let down? No she didn’t totally think so after all she was a successful businesswoman. No she didn’t have the flash car or the big house but she was generally happy with her lot.

In clearing out the loft to move house, a bunch of brown envelopes are in the bottom of a box below big Ted and Sindy and Barbie.  Just like old photos, Jayne can’t resist looking at them. Laying them out in order, those beautiful delicate thin sheets of paper with their flowing delicate handwriting, followed by the blue covered little books with much bolder biro strokes, there is a common thread that strikes a chord and answers some of Jayne’s issues. Her eyes glance from one to the next; ‘could do better.’ 

Have you still got the magic towel?

I saw a picture of a friend of 20 or more years ago yesterday and I smiled; immediately taken back to the last memory of a tournament we were at, there was an issue over really bad coffee…a stand up for your rights moment. Petty but it seemed relevant at the time.

Memories came flooding back of his humour, his great personality and his conviction in what he believed in. Of fun times in days gone by when I was learning my craft and he and his peers were my own personal sporting heroes. Standing on the edge of the circle whilst most sipped Budweiser from the bottle, they discussed oil patterns and ball choice. Replaying frame after frame of games, citing American and European bowlers as examples of this that and the other. I was in awe.

His son was born a few weeks early. A joyful occasion as he was scheduled to be on a business trip at the due date.

Then my smile fades as I recall the shock of learning, in a phone call from a friend, he had gone missing: the days of landlines and pay phones. I even recall asking the dumb question ‘are you joking?’ for days then weeks we all hoped for news, again, no facebook to communicate, word of mouth.

Nothing.

With heavy heart we attended his memorial service. Pulling a friend to one side to tell him to pull his flies up before he got up to read a eulogy and we celebrated his life. Our lives move on and memories fade but your memory lives on JC especially in that bowling towel.

Odd Sock

I am currently at the mercy of the odd sock fairy...but it's not a sock that is odd that is my problem; it's a dongle.

I am relatively organised but the pressure of life dictates that I have a tendancy to 'put things there and i'll re organise/file/shred/label them tomorrow'. 

What i am good at though is putting important things in a safe place.

I know this dongle is required to run the program on a machine I have just sold. I know this dongle is therefore important. Hence, I would have put it in a safe place.....a very safe place.

So safe that I can't find it.

All the random safe places have been checked. A spare set of keys, glasses and thread count magnifier have been located but not the dongle. In an attempt to recall where it is that I have put it so safe that I can't find it; I have tried to clear my mind of all other clutter, relax [with a glass of wine] and await the memory's capacity to remember.....3 bottles of Rioja and a nice Pinot Grigio later i am still none the wiser. So today started the serious search; the methodical one. My office is now two bin liners of rubbish lighter and i have discovered my Assessor Training Files but still no dongle.

On to the shop floor next and all the logical dust traps there. But if anyone sees a blue dongle on a keyring that is a goldfish in a water bubble can they let me know, it might be stuck in a drawer with your odd socks.

When Jill had a spot of bother

Rapunzel’s iphone rang; it was Jill. ‘Hi Jill, how’s things?’

There was a sob at the other end of the line, ‘Jill, what’s up Hunny?’ Rapunzel waited whilst the sobs and sniffles reduced. ‘I don’t know what to do…’ more sobs.

‘Uh huh….’

‘He’s just useless; he’s doing my head in. He can’t do anything right and now he’s in hospital.’ The sobs increased to full volume.

‘Stay there Jill, I’ll come right over.’

Grabbing the keys to her Beamer, Rapunzel ran down the stairs, undid the solid oak door, drew up the portcullis and lowered the ramp across the moat. Stepping back into the hall to retrieve the keys off the portmanteau, she glanced in the mirror and admired her biceps… ‘good work going to the gym’, she thought.

Zigzagging her way across the country lanes, she reached the hospital to see Jill sitting on the steps of A&E, cigarette dangling from her fingers, her head on her knees.

‘Sod disabled parking spaces,’ she thought as she handbrake turned into one, nearly sending an old dear and her Zimmer frame into a lamppost. She jumped from the car and ran across to Jill. ‘Hunny, I’m here, what’s happened?’

More sobs as Jill realised who it was, ‘Oh Rapunzel! She rose off the steps and hugged her friend. He’s such a daft bugger; he went without me!’

Rapunzel looked puzzled… ’went where?’

‘He went to open up the acequia to let the water through, he yanked too hard on the gate and came flying backwards down the track, cracking his head open.’ Jill sobbed again, ‘bloody Jack, if he wasn’t so soddin ill, I’d kill him!’

A date with a masked crusader

‘Rapunzel, Rapunzel, throw down your hair’

Rapunzel sighed, gave one last look at ‘Mr  Honest, True and never hurt you’ 

profile and went to the window. Without thinking she opened her window and let  down her hair. 

A gentle tug turned into a snatch and when Rapunzel actually looked at

who was climbing she saw an old Ninja Mutant Turtle.

‘Stop! You are not Donatello. Who are you?’

The old man stopped and looked up, ‘oh I am he Rapunzel, just a
few years have gone by since those profile pics. ‘ He began to climb again.

Now Rapunzel was not a needy woman but she was fed up of chameleons,
she reached behind her and grabbed a pair of scissors from her sewing basket.      Taking a deep breath she sliced off her hair releasing Donatello into the 

pyracantha below. 

Pulling the double glazed window to, she sighed, turned to
the mirror, funked up her new short hair and went back to see if she could find
her leading man amongst the players.

Paperwork

The working day needs to get more organised! 

Reminders, late orders, quotes, jobs in general... And it was a tidy ordered chaos at 9 am!